Article for Women Issues

Imagine waking up one morning to find that you are using your unique talents in a fully satisfying way
that you feel wonderful in your body
and that your life feels rich and complete.

Now ask yourself
how much time and money have you spent trying to live up to the cultural ideal of female beauty? Every year Americans spend over $40 billion on dieting. People put massive life energy into studying the latest diet
planning menus
agonizing over food choices
depriving themselves
and doing forms of exercise they don't even enjoy. There is so much more to life than the endless quest to make the body look like the cultural beauty ideal.

It doesn't have to be that way. Before the dieting craze began
people defined themselves much more by who they were and what they did in the world. They spent their life energies enriching the world around them instead of spending their time trying to look beautiful. They focused on their family
their community
and their unique talents.

Today women are subtly taught to define themselves strictly by how they look. And the look we're taught to desire isn't even obtainable. Only 5% of women are underweight
yet 87% of the actresses we see on television are. And models? Not only are their photos heavily airbrushed to remove any "flaws"
they generally stand 5'9" and weigh 110 pounds. The average American woman
at 5'4" and 140 pounds just isn't ever going to look like that plasticized model no matter how hard she tries.

Some of the time and money we spend trying to look like those actresses and models could be much better spent living a great life. There is a sadness in the desperate quest for beauty. It's unsettling to see celebrities starving themselves into emaciated bodies. How much more graceful it is to accept the wonderful bodies we were born with and put our life energies and money into making a meaningful contribution to the world around us.

We each have much more to give than just trying to achieve a cultural beauty standard. You are beautiful right now
exactly as you are.

Take your life back from the media machine. You are more than the "look" you present to the world. Inside each one of us live hopes
dreams
talents
and the potential for a joyful
rich life. Life goes by fast. Make it a wonderful experience instead of a quest for unattainable beauty and thinness.